One of my biggest turn-offs is sarcasm. Especially chronic sarcasm. Snarky remarks are a guaranteed way to derail my libido.
If I give you a compliment, accept it with some level of appreciation, instead of blowing it off. When someone takes the time and effort to recognize and appreciate you, try to return the favor.
Sarcasm is mean shit said with a smile. Its not clever or funny. Its pessimism wrapped with a pretty bow tie.
I am good with occasional sarcasm. Sometimes we do need to vent while trying to keep a proper attitude. But some people abuse it like a one trick pony. And that’s not the oral skill I am hoping she’ll wear out.
If we’re going to spend time together, lets spend it making eachother feel better about ourslves. Lets celebrate life instead of criticizing it. I am looking for a sexy kitten, not a grumpy cat. Honey tastes a lot better than vinegar. Unless, of course, you don’t like being tasted ;’)